The Perfect Paso Robles Destination Wedding Venue

With its 65 acres of privacy, gardens, orchards, spectacular views, and outdoor and indoor settings, including romantic pondside locations, and weekend accommodations Willow and Oak Estate is the perfect destination. 

With more than a decade in the wedding consulting and rental business, opening the private, family estate was the next logical step to continuing award-winning wedding services. The full suite of amenities includes: 

  • Exclusive use of the 65-acre estate for an entire weekend.

  • Personalized service for a tailored experience and on-site support for your event.

  • Pondside, barn, or select estate locales for ceremonies, receptions, or after-hours parties.

  • Outdoor kitchen and built-in bars.

  • Room for dancing to live music or a DJ.

  • Plentiful lighting for after-dark celebrating.

  • Overnight accommodations for up to 22 guests, including a main house with commercial-grade appliances.

  • Wedding and event rentals through a partnership with All About Events, the award-winning Central Coast favorite wedding rental company.

  • Event set up and breakdown.

  • Recommendations for wedding professionals such as caterers, wedding planners, photographers, and more.

  • Plentiful parking, bathroom facilities, and trash disposal for the comfort and convenience of guests.

paso robles destination wedding venue newlyweds in boat on lake

Destination weddings have become a popular way to enjoy a unique experience for a very special event, and often, to combine the ceremony with the honeymoon. Willow and Oak Estates wedding venue represents all of the beauty and romance of a Paso Robles destination wedding, plus the added benefit of arrangements and amenities that are dedicated to a weekend of relaxing comfort and lifelong memories for the wedding guests. The estate’s natural beauty and heritage of forever love add a special enchantment to your wedding weekend. 

Relax and leave concerns at home

With over a decade in the wedding services business, we know what a blur the wedding day can be, but at Willow and Oak Estates, you have an entire weekend to unwind and savor every minute of this special time.  

We work closely with catering companies, wedding planners, and other wedding professionals to ensure your Paso Robles destination wedding. is romantic, relaxing, and memorable. Our goal is to eliminate as much of the last few days of stress and worry leading up to your special day as possible. 

On-site overnight accommodations for as many as 22 guests eliminate arranging transportation, worries about any of the wedding party being late, and worrying about everything being perfect.

  • Exclusive access to the property and relaxing accommodations for you and your guests give you plenty of time to savor the entire weekend without feeling rushed.

  • Arrive the day before, unpack and relax. Take a stroll around the estate, sip wine by the pond, or do some fishing. Have a good night’s sleep and enjoy the sunrise. 

  • Take advantage of picturesque on-site locations for hosting wedding party gatherings throughout the weekend. 

  • Our Willow and Oak staff and All About Events set-up crew make sure every last detail is in place and ready, right down to the silverware on the table and catering and serving needs.

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Common FAQs

  • Because you and your guests have exclusive use of the entire estate for three days and two nights we recommend that you make your reservations as soon as possible. 

  • Yes. Many couples want to honeymoon in the area or entertain guests for extra days. Let us know your plans and we’ll quote you a cost for your entire stay. 

  • Our capacity is 200 guests, including the wedding party. We can accommodate up to 22 overnight guests. 

Willow and Oak Estate where forever starts

The Willow and Oak story began in the 1980s when a single mom and a self-proclaimed bachelor accidentally fell in love and married. When the newlywed Palmers decided to build their home and life here among the oaks, they had no idea they would be creating a legacy that led to the estate’s extraordinary wedding venue.

In 2005, their oldest daughter married her high school sweetheart on the estate, followed a few years later by the youngest daughter’s wedding. In 2018 the Palmers renewed their marriage vows with a formal celebration, officiated by their youngest daughter, with their grandbabies in attendance.  

Willow and Oak officially opened as a destination wedding venue in 2021 and was awarded Best Outdoor Venue in SLO County in 2023 by California Wedding Day. We are committed to continuing the family’s romantic legacy.